To Saint
If a
saint is a very virtuous, kind, or patient person, who is the first person you
think of? Today I’m using the word “saint” as a verb-an action word. We are
remembering people we love or have loved, and those we have lost. We each have
our list. Who has sainted you? Who has been an example of all that is good, kind,
and true?
We know
we’re all a mix of saint and sinner, that’s our human condition. But there are
those special people who seem to get love right. Jesus Christ taught us how to
love and warned us against any kind of selfishness, cruelty, greed, and exclusion
in his blessings and woes sermon of this morning. (Luke 6)
Saints
might seem rarer these days when hate is on full display. I have spent the week
thinking of people who personally and more broadly “sainted” well. I found my
mind wandering to people who have blessed and taught my children through their lives.
I haven’t named them, but perhaps you’ll recognize some of these behaviors.
Who has
taught you to love? Who has taught you to care about the world? Who has sainted
you?
Is it
the person who bandaged a knee or dried your tears with gentle kisses when you
fell?
Is it
the person who read all the books on the shelf to you while you were cuddled before
bedtime?
Is it the
person who taught you how to gently catch spiders in the basement and put them
outside because all creatures matter?
Who has
sainted you?
Is it
the person who taught you how to make cookies and didn’t care if flour covered
the kitchen counters and floor?
Is it the
person who sliced a crisp fall apple and evenly divided the slices with you,
even though you always ended up with an extra slice?
Is it
the person who showed up for football games, choir concerts, parent-teacher
conferences, robotics competitions and positively affirmed every moment?
Is it the
person who taught you how to write a poem about springtime?
Is it
the person who taught you how to talk to God?
Is it the
person who never over-explained, but simply answered your questions with
open-ended thoughts?
Who has
sainted you?
Is it
the person who was patient when you made an emotional decision, had an
elaborate pity-party, or were too self-focused?
Is it
the person who carefully guided you back to safety when you were going down a
wrong path in life?
Is it the person who listened to your mess-ups and didn’t judge
you or make fun of you or scold you?
Is it the person who failed, made a huge mistake, hit bottom, and
then got back up again, and told you the truth?
Is
it the person who embodies or embodied the fruit of the Spirit, love,
joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and
self-control.
Who has sainted you?
Is it the person who taught you what Jesus meant when he said that
the poor are blessed, the Kingdom of God belongs to them. They are the people
worth hanging out with and caring for?
Is it the person who showed you how to feed the hungry?
Is it the person who showed you how to wipe someone else’s tears
and help them laugh again?
Is it the person who defends or defended those who are excluded,
reviled, and defamed for no good reason? Did they show you how to bring
everyone in and keep no one out?
Who has sainted you?
Is it the person who never took themselves too seriously, and
taught you how to let pride and ego go?
Here is another question. Whom have you sainted?
Is it the person learning about love, kindness, and generosity
from you?
Is it the person learning patience from you?
Is it the person learning about forgiveness from you?
Is it the person learning how to love strangers and neighbors and
enemies from you?
Whom have you sainted?
Last week I gave you a little homework. I asked you to think about
your own funeral. This was not meant to be a depressing task. Your funeral is
your last dance on earth. How do you want it to go? What music, hymns, solos
would you like? Which hymns fill your heart, or bring tears to your eyes? What
are your favorite scripture passages, poems, prose? If there was an open mic,
who would you like to stand up and tell stories about you? Which stories? Whom
have you sainted and continue to saint?
We’ve got one shot on this earth to do all the good we can. Of
course, it’s not about good for ourselves, but good for all people and
creation. If we follow Jesus, we have the perfect road map. If we love well, we’re
traveling in good footsteps.
Today we remember and thank God for those who have sainted us and
taught us how to saint.
May we leave today with new inspiration and wonderful memories of
those who’ve taught us boldness, joyfulness, openness, and generosity along the
way.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you bring Jesus Christ into the
world with your words and actions.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you meet the needs of another.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you don’t know everything.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you walk in another person’s
shoes.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when words of kindness spill out of
your mouths on a regular basis.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you speak the truth in love.
Blessed are you when you treat others the way you want to be
treated.
Blessed are you, dear friends, when you face life’s losses and remember
death is not the final word.
God bless those with broken hearts today. May the Holy Spirit of
God mend the rugged places and bring you peace and wholeness.
For all the saints. For all of you. Continue to saint. Grace, peace, and love. In the name of Jesus
Christ. Amen.